Tom had a fall

 We were up and getting ready to leave for dialysis early Thursday morning (2/6) when I heard a crash and ran down to the basement. Tom had fallen down the steps. He had minimal physical damage in terms of shoulder, and hip, but the top and back of his head was bruised and bleeding. He was transferred from the Mt. Holly ER to Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital in Camden (20miles/40 minutes away from home) that night and is still there recovering. 

Leaving Mt. Holly

He was bleeding in his brain which has caused a big problem with his thinking and communicating verbally. 

They did many scans and monitored his brainwaves. 

     He was improved enough to move him out of the ICU and into Bed 1 on the 5th floor PCU early morning Sunday. He still can't answer the "Can you tell me your birthday" question and although he is doing more talking much of it is filled with wrong or gibbery words for what he is trying to say. He still sleeps a lot and hasn't eaten much (first two days only liquids allowed and now back to little appetite)

     Someone came to talk about acute rehab when he is ready to move in that direction. Last night after I got home (4th night in a row I got a bit lost and turned around on the dark drive home :-)  he called with a pleading request to get out of there and come home. His intent was clear but the words were not coming out right. I don't know how long it is going to take for a full recovery if that is even going to happen. I pray that it does (and am so grateful for all the prayers from Facebook friends that is currently ongoing).

Meanwhile, Sue wrote that they arrived in New Zealand safely at 10:15 p.m. (5:15 a.m. here!)

     

What happened to January?

 ....and then February came along....Seriously. I was adding up the expenses of the month and realized we didn't go to the movies once (!) and never danced at Prospectors until last Thursday up to the end of the second lesson. Between doctor appointments, dialysis, and H&R Block there wasn't much time for fun. Plus poor Tom doesn't feel well enough to do much.

     I am looking forward to a visit from Jennifer, although air travel to the East Coast is looking a bit ominous these days (helicopter and plane crash over D.C. and small plane crash into Philadelphia neighborhood). 

Assorted recent photos:

Pandora dinner

Fire and Ice set up in passing

Check up with Dr. Godleski

Made it to the Lofland's annual Jan. party

Good news from Dr. Wallace

Checking out leaky tube at ER (it was ok)

   

Why does insurance cost so much?

 Due to the $400 increase in AAA car insurance since I started with them last year (because of continuing 6 mos. increases in Geico insurance) I started feeling out other companies, most of whom were same or higher. Why??? (and homeowners bundled with it is more too, of course).

Very frustrating!

Many many doctor appointments to end the year

 Currently sitting in the surgical waiting room in the Marlton Virtua hospital, I created my 2025 shutterfly calendar. It's dedicated to a healthier year to come.

Last January and the removal of Tom's right kidney was the start. Hopefully, clearing up this latest complication of his recent gallbladder removal will be the last of the new stuff and the (delayed) PET scan will show improvement on the cancer status. <insert crossed fingers here>

While it's been a lot of caring for and driving Tom to ER, hospital, rehab, dialysis, and doctor's appointments we did manage to get in some eating out (well a lot of that, actually), dancing, some movies, Cody's wedding in May, and our last CMA Music Fest in June, followed by more doctors, hospital, dialysis (that started in August), immunotherapy, and surgery.

I love Tom so much and hate to see him suffering so. He has been very brave.

  

 

It's beginning to look a lot like....

We got to the NJREA Convention between dialysis treatment days and I was happy to see everyone.

Long time friend, Stacy

Meeting of the NJREA delegates

 

My other recent activities included book club, hospital with Tom, attending the SHIP Fall Update (for Medicare open enrollment preparation), lunching with Kathryn, Ron, Simon, and Jackie, partying at Kathryn's surprise party for Lisa, enjoying the John Denver tribute at the library auditorium, and seeing a few movies out (the best of which, so far, was The Best Christmas Pageant Ever).

Jennifer is the best!

 We were so happy to have Jennifer with us for a visit!

She came bearing gifts and helped us clear out a lot of garage build up.

Her goal was/is to help us sell the pool table. That is ongoing. Wish us luck!

She got to visit with Lynnie and the Joneses.                 

Is it sad that our main shared activity was watching The O.C.? (Oh, Adam!)

I took her to the airport and waved a sad good-bye. 'Til we meet again... 

Catching up, October now

 The big story in the news for these last days is Hurricane Milton, the second to hit Florida in the last two weeks (first was Helene). Just devastating! :-(

I'll go search googlephotos and post some to remember what's been going on in the last month since last I posted....

BCREA Fall General Membership Meeting

BCEA Election postcards

Visited Anne Louise Taylor newly at assisted living

DEAR lunch

Prospectors lunch with Janet

Tom eating at Prospectors while I danced

Posing at Prospectors

NJREA Fall Meeting/lunch

Eastampton Book Club

Eastampton Community Day (formerly Fun)

Hmm...seems like most of those are Association related. Since I've become BCREA Membership Chair I've kept pretty busy with that, but reading, movies! and watching TV a bit too.

I miss going out dancing like we used to...a couple of times a week. Tom is more amenable to it now. He is used to the dialysis and doctors routine..seeming stronger (I hope) but still tired and sleeping frequently. He has an appointment to get a different kind of opening (arm) for dialysis on Monday.

Jennifer is coming out to visit tomorrow! Can't wait!

Other general news: Kim's daughter, Kayla, got married. Patrick had Covid when he got back from a recent jaunt that involved flying and included Arkansas. I miss Gee Gee and Marian and need to get back in touch and out to see them. Lynne Tarkett moved south to be with family and has health issues :-(   The barrage of election ads and articles and pleas for money is overwhelming. 

Commiserating with Janet re her brother and now her health and also Marcy, whose husband is in straits similar to Tom's has been my support group...along with Sue, Theresa and other Contact friends. Oh and back in touch with Doreen...George has bone cancer and will be starting chemo.